O young man! Tell me, if someone does something like this to your mother, will you like it? (Recalling the sense of honour) The young man humbly replied like this: No! By Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ! Ya Rasoolallah صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم! May I be sacrificed for you! I will definitely not like it. The Beloved Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم said, “If you do not like that someone does something like this to your mother, so other people do not like it either that someone does something like this to their mother.

The Beloved Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم then asked, “Do you like it for your daughter?’ He humbly replied: May I be sacrificed for you. My master! Not at all. The Beloved Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم said, ‘Other people do not like it for their daughters either.’  He صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم then asked: ‘Do you like it for your sister?’ He humbly replied: May I be sacrificed for you! By Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ! Not at all. The Beloved Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم said: ‘Similarly, other people do not like it for their sisters either.’ The Beloved Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم then asked him the same question about aunts (the sister of mother and sister of father), the young man humbly replied in the negative every time and the Beloved Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم also made him understand: When you do not like that anyone does something indecent to them, so remember, the woman with whom you will do something like this, will also be someone’s mother, someone’s daughter, someone’s sister and  someone’s aunt (the sister of his mother or sister of his father). As a result of the blessed individual effort of the Beloved Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم the young man understood. The Beloved Rasool صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم had further mercy on him by placing his blessed hand on his chest and requested in the blessed Court of Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ: O my Lordعَزَّوَجَلَّ! Forgive his sin; purify his heart and protect his private parts. So by virtue of the blessings of this Du’a, the young man abstained from the bad deed throughout his life. (Musnad Ahmad, vol. 8, pp. 285, Hadees 22274)

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